Monday, August 23, 2010

Menu Plan Monday


We are finally getting some cooler weather here and I'm in the mood for more fall comfort food type meals. But, we are up to our eyeballs in fresh tomatoes and corn so we need to eat that up. The fall casserole food will have to wait a couple of weeks.


Here's what we are having for dinner this week:


Tuesday: Sloppy Joes, Glazed Carrots, Garden Salad

Wednesday: BBQ chicken thighs, Broccoli Salad, Rolls

Thursday: Spaghetti with Meat Sauce, Garlic Toast, Garden Salad

Monday, August 16, 2010

Menu Plan Monday




Now that you've got some idea of what we purchase for $50 a week; here's what we are eating this week:

Monday:

Breakfast: Protein Shake, Cottage Cheese
Lunch: Oriental Chicken Salad from Boston Market, yuck and double yuck, save your $
Supper: Ham Sandwiches for George, Tuna Salad for me, Chili from the freezer

Tuesday:

Breakfast: Steel Cut Oats with brown sugar and Peanut Butter
Lunch: Tuna Salad on day old Croissants marked down, apple
Supper: Chicken Pot Pie, Mashed Potatoes, Beets & Garden Salad

Wednesday:

Breakfast: Greek Yogurt & Banana
Lunch: Chicken Pot Pie (mmmm Love this!)
Supper: Meatloaf from the freezer, Baked Potato, Brussel Sprouts, Carrots

Thursday:

Breakfast: Cottage Cheese & Fibre One Cereal, nectarine
Lunch: Another Chicken Pot Pie, Apple
Supper: Oven baked Pork Chops, roasted root veggies (rutabaga, turnips and parsnips) and a garden salad

Friday

Breakfast: Scrambled egg with melted cheese
Lunch: Pork Chop and veggies
Supper: Pizza

Snacks for this week will be skim milk, low fat cheese, cashews, apple, nectarines and raw veggies with dip.

This post is linked to MPM.

The Household Grocery Budget



Mrs. U over at Making a House a Home, recently lamented the high cost of groceries. It can be a real challenge to provide our families with nutritious meals without breaking the bank! When we first married, four years ago I set our grocery budget at $50 per week. As a single lady, my grocery budget was $34 a week and I didn't even use all of it most weeks. I figured it wouldn't be too difficult to feed George for an additional $16 per week. And, it was easy, at first. And, then it became increasingly more challenging, especially when George decided he wanted milk that costs $8 a gallon.

When I'm in a big hurry I would love to be one of those people that runs to the store without considering what's on sale, making a list, and just throw whatever looks good in the cart, But I've come to realize that's not me. I need to have some sort of a game plan for the grocery store, or I spend way too much money and have nothing to make a meal of.

So, What Do We For $50 a Week?

Every family's grocery budget looks a little different. What you spend for food depends on income, the season of life you are in, special dietary considerations and preferences and how much food costs in your neck of the woods. Here's a look at what we routinely get for our $50 per week and our special considerations that affect cost:

First off, we just have the two of us to feed and that alone is a big money saver. My husband doesn't eat a typical breakfast or lunch 5 days a week, but he does go through a jar of peanuts every other week to help keep mid day hunger at bay and he eats a really big meal at night. I have special dietary need of a little higher lean protein than average due to weight loss surgery.  Other than that we don't have any special foods we need. We aren't "all organic, never buy anything in a box people" either. But we do like lots of fresh veggies, fruit and dairy. My idea of a convenience food is a bag of frozen vegetables.

If you read my weekly menus you have a pretty good idea of what we eat for supper day in and day out, so we will start with that.

Our most commonly eaten dinner meats are the following (all purchased at sale prices)

Fish (free; well except for the license and tackle, but that comes under entertainment in our budget)
Pork Loin (about $1.79lb)
Ground Round (about $2.29lb)
Chicken Breast (about $1.79-1.99lb)
Chicken Thighs (about .99lb)
Good Steak (about 1x per month $5.99 to 7.49lb)

Sometimes we eat the protein portion of our supper in a form that stretches it out a bit; like a Mexican dish or casserole of some sort. The sides for our suppers are pretty simple: salads, fresh or frozen vegetables. We grow a pretty good sized garden and eat from that for most of July and August. We preserve onions, peppers and corn and share the rest of what we don't eat right away with friends and family.

Other items we buy frequently:

Ice Cream (Breyer's $2.50)
Milk ($2-$3 a gallon)
Cottage Cheese ($2)
Greek Yogurt ($2-$4)
Sour Cream ($1-$1.50)
Cheese ($3 - $4/lb)
Albacore Tuna ($2)
Salsa ($2)
Bread ($2 -$3)
Fresh and/or frozen fruit and veggies (about $10-$15 each week)

Items we use fairly often, but buy only occasionally due to stocking up on a great sale, or buying in a larger quantity:

Oils (olive, coconut, walnut)
Butter
Flour
Sugar
Stevia
Tea
Coffee
Crackers
Oats
Rice
Pasta
Beans
Peanuts
Tomato Sauce, Paste, etc
Gum
Taco Shells
Spices
Condiments

Over all, I think we eat a pretty healthy diet on our $50 a week budget. Since we nixed the $8 a gallon it's been a lot easier to stick to $50, but it still presents a fun challenge. I think the main reason we are able to stick to a pretty conservative grocery budget is mostly because of what we don't buy or only buy as a rare treat or convenience. Many items we think of as staples or must haves, actually cost quite a lot of money per serving. Some examples are: many types of cold cereals, breakfast bars, juice, pop, frozen dinners or desserts, canned soup and out of season produce. Of course, if you match up a good sale with a coupon, many of these items can be had very cheaply and sometimes I do that.

 We Splurge Too!

That said, it might surprise you to find out we do include some expensive items in our grocery budget.  Such as gum (is that even a food?!) well, it is to me because it comes out of the grocery budget. My husband must go through 6 packs of this a month. I also buy the good tuna -- the expensive Starkist albacore pouches. I just don't like the light tuna. Does that make me bad? I match up sales with coupons to the extent that I can to keep the cost lower, but sometimes I pay full price for a package. Please note, if I were feeding a crowd of hungry kids, I would be very tempted to serve the .59 a can cheap stuff!

We also buy Stevia, which is a gazillion times more expensive than regular sugar. I routinely buy the more expensive brands of Greek Yogurt like Chobani, Stoneyfield Farms and Fage which, is very pricey per serving -- but I really, really like it. Oh, and we also buy the good bread that's about $4 a loaf but we get that on sale for $2 -$3). Sometimes I make homemade, which is much tastier and cheaper, but not that often. And, don't forget the steak. About once every month or so I've been buying a couple of pounds of really good steak.  There are plenty of items we are willing to skimp and buy the cheaper version so we can splurge on the things we really like.

Friday, August 13, 2010

Is It Sweet Tea or Unsweetened Tea?


Last week I sat next to a girlfriend at a company luncheon and she ordered a sweet tea. The first thought in my mind was "this ain't the south, honey". In confirmation of my thought, the waitress replied "we only serve unsweetened tea". To you Southerners serving only unsweetened tea boarders on blasphemy, but up here, north of the sweet tea line, it's the norm. The expression on my girlfriend's face was priceless, she just couldn't believe they expected her to sweeten her tea herself at the table. She's lived in Michigan for years and years so I was really surprised that she thought you could get a sweet tea at a restaurant (it's just not done here, folks). She said that she'd gotten used to all the McDonald's carrying the sweet tea and thought all the restaurants had finally arrived. Too cute!

Just for the record, I really like tea in general and love icy cold unsweetened tea in the summer. I'm not to particular about brands, I usually make my hot and cold tea at home using Lipton or something similar that can be picked up a regular grocery store. Lately I've really been enjoying the new Lipton pyramid teas -- blueberry pomegranate is my favorite! As far as iced tea; in my neck of the woods; Gold Peak Tea is the gold standard for good tea; but I seldom buy it as it's so much cheaper to make it at home for as much as we drink.

So, how do you like your tea? Sweet or Unsweetened? 

Where is this elusive Sweet Tea Line? Does it fall the same as the Mason-Dixon line?

Do you like hot tea as well as iced tea?

Thursday, August 12, 2010

My Waterford Crystal, Egg Anniversary



George and I don't generally exchange gifts to celebrate our anniversary. So, I wasn't expecting anything on our anniversary last week. But, I was pleasantly surprised. Upon his return from a long hot day of roofing a barn, the first thing he unloaded from his truck was a Waterford crystal box, a card with my name on it and a dozen of eggs. My curiosity was piqued.  George had been working 12-14 hour days for weeks and weeks; when did he have time to buy me a gift? I wondered. And, a something crystal?! Let's face it; I'm far more likely to receive a gift that can be bought at a contractor's supply house.

After we finished our nightly ritual of unloading his truck, we sat down and had a glass of ice water and George told me the story of the crystal vase.  George was telling the owner of the barn that it was our 4th anniversary that day. He tells everyone when it's our anniversary -- which is enough to make me marry that man all over again. Turns out his customer has a whole roomful of Waterford crystal in one of his other barns. What on earth?! A roomful of boxed up ready to gift crystal?!  He gave George a lovely vase and card to give to me and said to consider it part of his pay for the job. What a nice surprise.

In addition to the beautiful vase; I was equally thrilled to receive a dozen pastel coloured eggs from "Easter Egg" chickens.  I'd never seen any of these eggs up close and personal and they are just so neat. The blue eggs are my favorite; the palest blue and so exquisitely dainty and beautiful.

Monday, August 09, 2010

Our Weekly Menu


Monday

BBQ Ribs, Mashed Potatoes, Green Peas

Tuesday

Quick & Tasty Mexican Casserole with all the fixin’s and homemade salsa

Wednesday

Spaghetti & Meatballs, Garden Salad, Garlic Toast

Thursday

Lemon Dill Fish, Oven Fries, Glazed Carrots

Friday

Take out Pizza

Wednesday, August 04, 2010

It's our Anniversary!

We are celebrating anniversaries back to back around here. Today is our 4th wedding anniversary; the time has passed so quickly. It's hard to believe 4 years have gone by in the blink of an eye.

We aren't doing anything to celebrate due to George's long hours, unless you count me discovering that Mr Clean magic erasers really do work magic on stubborn shower and tub stains. Oh wait, that is something to celebrate all on it's own! We will probably grab a bite to eat after church on Sunday after the flurry of the week has passed.

The blog-o-sphere is filled with oodles of newly-married-to-my-best-friend-and-everything-is-perfect ladies doling out expert marriage advice. Frankly, that's always seem kind of ironic to me. I prefer to seek counsel on important topics like marriage from those that have done it for a long time and have actually seen hard times. And, no, having to stick to a household budget and working long hours does not constitute a hard time.

Now, that I've made my viewpoint on who's qualified to give out marriage advice on the Internet and who's not clear, I'm going to give you my advice. Me -- who doesn't even meet my own criteria. Tee hee. Please stay with me as I'm sharing the three most helpful things to our marriage.

1.  Ask God for a mate 

Hello, this is just good common sense. The One that made you also probably has a really good idea of who is the right mate for you. When I was a little kid, our local Redneck dime store routinely cleared out old merchandise by stuffing a bunch in a grocery bag and stapling it shut so you couldn't see the contents. Upon paying your $1 you tore open the bag hoping for something good. Sometimes you were pleasantly surprised. Most often you were severely disappointed.  If I did the picking of a husband on my own, I stood a pretty fair chance of pulling a dud out of the grab bag of life. It worked much better for me to go with God's choice and end up pleasantly surprised.

2. Stop being so selfish

Uh, yeah, that's a hard one for me. George and I both married late in life and lived alone for so long that we've had all the time in the world to become selfish. It is so easy to get along with people when you don't have to be around anyone. It's laughable now to think how sweet and loving I thought I was when I lived alone. My sisters and I have actually laughed ourselves sick over that one.

So many marriages struggle for a breath of life because one or both parties are so worried the other one is being to selfish and not meeting all their needs. News flash: we can all be horribly selfish -- even when we think we're not because we just can't see it. Bottom line; stop whining and start being nice, thoughtful and helpful. The chances of you being taken advantage of and never getting your own way, or having things done right, or becoming a doormat are pretty slim. Even if you don't get as much as you think you should in return, it's a good feeling to be sweet to your husband. After all, did we get married just to see how much we can get from our spouse? It seems to me we ought to be good to our husband to show our love and affection because that's what you do to people you love. Not in love anymore? How about doing it because you promised to.

3. Attend the Seniors bible study class

At 51 and 35, George and I are the youngest members of our Sunday bible study class. We've been in the class since before marriage and I can honestly say that I've learned as much on life from the members of our class as I have from our study of the bible. Hearing a man tell you with tears in his eyes that he will have to put his wife of 64 years in a home soon really helps you put love, life and marriage in the proper perspective.

Monday, August 02, 2010

Our Weekly Menu



Monday

Chili topped Cheese & Sour Cream, Cornbread

Tuesday

Reubens, Pasta Salad

Wednesday

Mesquite Marinated Grilled Pork Chops, Mashed Potatoes, Green Beans

Thursday

Taco Bake topped with lettuce, sour cream, salsa & tomatoes

Friday

Pizza