In this edition of the Practical Money Management Series we cover the use of credit. While my husband and I are not totally against the use of credit, we do believe in being extremely cautious when using credit.
The basis for our opinions regarding credit use stem primarily from observing our parents use of credit and our own negative experiences.
George and I grew up in families that had very limited use of credit. This is partly because credit used to be rather difficult to obtain and partly because our parents did not believe in buying things on credit. Mortgages and short-term car loans were the exceptions. Getting a loan for a home or car was a very big deal. You had to have a generous down payment and a spectacular credit history. Once our parents received a loan, paying it off as quickly as possible became a family focus.
Due to our parents' example George and I grew up thinking of cash as the only "normal" way to buy things (with the exception of a house and to some extent a vehicle). To us it seems weird that some bank will allow a person to charge up a month's worth of groceries, a vacation, movie tickets, utility bills and a closet full of clothes all on the promise to pay it back... someday. Today just about anyone and their dog can be given the privilege of charging their whole living to a credit card. Unreal.
Thank God our first encounters with credit were terrible!
George's story:When my husband was a young man, he went to the discount appliance store and charged up $600 worth of stereo equipment -- the complete set up for the day. He was so excited to have a complete stereo system that played the full gamut of media available at that time, with such high quality sound. The day he received the first bill, he was sorry. He said it took forever to pay it off. I doubt he enjoyed the stereo as much as he thought he would, knowing that a big bill was looming every month.
Trixie's story:When I was 14 I wanted to buy my mom a new table. Value City had a beautiful glass topped table for four and a set of chairs on sale for $99. They advertised low payments of only $15 per month. My plan was to pay $15 on the table each month for 7 months and still have $5 of my housecleaning money left to spend on myself. I told Grandma what I would like to do and asked her if she would take me to the store to get the table and bring it home to Mom.
My grandma probably thought this would make a great learning opportunity for me. Boy, was she was right! Grandma took me to get the table and signed up for credit in her name and gave me the bill each month. I was ever so shocked to find out Value City had the nerve to charge me interest. It was something like 22% interest, too. Up to this point, I was only familiar with
collecting interest, not paying it. Talk about a wake up call.
After a while, I realized it would take many more months to pay for the table than I originally planned. And you know what? It sucked. I felt cheated. Every time Grandma gave me the statement I felt sick. For several months I spent all $20 of my housecleaning money in an effort to pay the debt off. There was no money left for anything, and that
really sucked.
My first experience with consumer debt was a wonderful blessing in disguise. Looking back I am so thankful my Grandma never gave in and offered to help pay the bill off. I'm also dearly grateful for those months of not having a dime left to pay for anything else. Those months gave me such a distaste for buying things I cannot truly afford that I vowed to never, ever get in over my head again.
When we choose to use creditWe both have had mortgages in the past and we have one on the house we live in now. In most cases it is simply not possible for people to acquire the most expensive thing they will ever own with cash. We also recently took on a 1 year car note, which I will elaborate on in a future post.
We follow 4 key guidelines1. Save for a large down payment. 2. Borrow far less credit than the bank tells you that you can afford. (Obviously banks lie, as evidenced by the current economic situation)
3. Make sure the debt is secured by an asset you can sell for more than the amount of the loan. (like a house or an automobile)4. Hatch a plan to pay off the debt as quickly as possible.For my first home I saved up for 10
years to collect enough money for a good down payment. A house was such a big purchase for me and I remember being so scared of having the house taken away if I missed a payment that I was careful to make sure the monthly payment including taxes and insurance would not be more than I could comfortably afford, even if I got laid off and had to collect unemployment.
Once the first mortgage payment came due, I made it a priority to funnel all extra funds to paying of the loan. The idea of still owing on that house when I was 50 made me want to throw up. Not paying it off early was simply not an option --even when you factor in the wonderful tax deduction everyone likes to convince you that you need.
My husband's first home was also a modest home that was easily affordable on his salary. He worked so hard to pay his loan off completely and be done with the interest payments within a very short amount of time. Paying off his house early was one of the key factors that allowed my husband to quit his full-time-and-then-some job to begin his own business. What a blessing his foresight has been!
Okay, that's great for you guys, but what about those of us swimming in debt?
George and I will be the first to admit, our lives are much easier because we haven't been slaves to debt. However, lots of people are going through severe struggles due to an overwhelming debt load. The most obvious solution is to get out of debt and stay out. That's much easier to say than do, huh? Unfortunately, it's the only way. Well, either that or win the lottery.
The secret to regaining control of your financial life is to pay off the debt and most importantly, stop incurring new debt.
To put it quite simply, people have debt problems because their outgo is more than their income. A cold hard fact, that seems especially cruel when you've experienced job loss or a medical emergency.
In spite of whatever unfortunate circumstances that have caused your debt problem that are three things you can do, assuming you aren't banking on winning the lottery or cashing in on an inheritance.
1. Reduce living expenses to less than the debt payments, to allow for repayment
2. Increase your income
3. Any combination of the two.
One of the first things to do is to reduce expenses. What if you've already cut out cable, re quoted your insurance, and stopped eating out but still can't pay your bills? Well, this sounds harsh, but you will have to take a long hard look at everything you think of as a "necessity" and then find ways to reduce or eliminate those expenses.
Once we start looking at selling a car, a home, moving to a cheaper, smaller apartment in a not so nice area or buying every stitch of clothing at yard sales and thrift stores things get downright uncomfortable. Severely reducing our standard of living is an assault on our self esteem. We think we are entitled to certain things. It's hard to accept, but owing or renting a modest home in a so-so area, a car, new clothing, etc. are not something we are entitled to. We can have those things if we can afford them.
Paring down or eliminating the necessities will be the hardest step in your journey to get out of debt. Once you get started, you will begin to develop a tremendous sense of accomplishment. For once you will be in control of your money instead of the other way around.
My childhood and early adult years lacked many things we consider necessary, hot running water, an indoor bathroom, sheets and blankets for the bed (we used coats), new clothing, etc. You know what? I seldom remember those things. Life was so good; foregoing a few things that modern society deems so important wasn't a big deal at all.
When my husband was first starting his business, he didn't have socks that would stay up or a decent pair of pants. He didn't give me an engagement ring until after we married. None of that mattered. I remember feeling so incredibly blessed because my husband didn't want to start our life out together hijacked by debt.
***I'm willing to bet that just about everyone's been through a tough time or two. In an effort to encourage others, will you please take a moment to leave a comment sharing some of the things you've done to make it through a difficult time?***